Friday, November 18, 2005

does size matter? a gendered analysis of body part size - or - more sharing

posting. there hasn't been a long post in a while. or an interesting one. let's see where this one goes - shall we?

okay. so. here is my question. does size matter?

now. i tend to like big guys. tall, broad etc. but i've gone out with slim guys and short guys (not short short but like my height) and it's all good. as for me, i realize that i will never be a size 6 - but i'm not too bothered. and i am very happy with the size of my breasts - so really - i think i'm pretty good to go. and both of those things people can tell pretty quickly about me. like at a bar - a guy can see what i look like, how big my boobs are etc. and he can judge me or not judge me based on those things. and that's his choice.

but there are some sizes which may or may not matter which hide. some sizes which can only be discovered after a fair about of intamacy. now i've seen some guys who are average size. i've a couple who are above average. and i've watched sex and the city. i know that below average is out there. maybe it was only a matter of time before i came across it. well people. that time is now. it can be small. really small. i think i always just thought that some people thought not-big = small. but it doesn't. because there is small. and on a big guy.... oh i'm a horrible person.

so in conclusion. people judge people. and the judging occurs at many points along the "getting to know you" journey. and though i am still hesitant to conclude that size matters - let's just say.... it doesn't not.

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